Negoisasi Peran Gender pada Pasangan Suami Istri dalam Mewujudkan Keberfungsian Sosial di Desa Purba Manalu
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https://doi.org/10.57235/jerumi.v4i2.9347Keywords:
Negosiasi peran gender, Pasangan suami istri bekerja, Keberfungsian sosial, Batak Toba. Dalihan Na ToluAbstract
Pasangan suami istri yang sama-sama bekerja menghadapi tuntutan untuk memenuhi kebutuhan ekonomi sekaligus menjalankan tanggung jawab domestik dan pengasuhan anak. Di Desa Purba Manalu, dinamika tersebut berlangsung dalam konteks budaya Batak Toba yang bercorak patrilineal. Penelitian ini bertujuan memahami mekanisme negosiasi peran gender dan implikasinya terhadap keberfungsian sosial keluarga. Penelitian menggunakan pendekatan kualitatif deskriptif. Data dikumpulkan melalui observasi, wawancara mendalam dengan satu informan kunci (tokoh adat), lima pasangan suami istri bekerja, dua anak sebagai informan tambahan, serta dokumentasi; data dianalisis melalui reduksi, penyajian, dan penarikan kesimpulan serta verifikasi. Temuan menunjukkan bahwa Dalihan Na Tolu membentuk ekspektasi peran yang berbeda bagi suami dan istri, sementara filosofi Anakkon hi do hamoraon di au memberi legitimasi kultural bagi istri untuk bekerja demi masa depan anak. Negosiasi berlangsung melalui doing gender, strategic compliance, serta komunikasi dan kompromi. Keterlibatan kedua pasangan dalam aktivitas produktif mendukung stabilitas ekonomi, pemenuhan pendidikan dan pengasuhan anak, afeksi, serta resiliensi keluarga. Namun, pembagian kerja domestik belum sepenuhnya setara dan dipengaruhi ideologi gender serta fleksibilitas waktu kerja. Penelitian selanjutnya dapat membandingkan keluarga dengan kondisi pekerjaan dan dukungan kekerabatan yang berbeda.
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